HARMONY

 

There is only one type of relationship that suits my fancy, and fits me like a glove or a second skin, and that is a give & take partnership.

I am very proud to have formed equally compatible and mutually satisfying relationships or partnerships with people I have met both online & in person, simply because we see eye to eye with each other, practice the same beliefs, and uphold the same morals and values.

When one first meets another, regardless of where they are, it is very important to practise etiquette and diplomacy, by initially acknowledging them & welcoming them, and also, to take the time out to get to know them either by chatting together or reading about what they have posted as well as finding out about their interests and hobbies. After doing so, it is very wise to give them feedback about their accomplishments, for this induces emotional support for them in order so they can feel like they are doing something worthwhile and people are noticing them for it. When one acknowledges another person in this respect, by listening to them and paying attention to them, this alone in my opinion shows the colours of a true genuine person who is caring and compassionate while respecting others and not only themselves.

Also, when one is in a relationship with another, they must stop to consider that perhaps their friend might not be in a good way on any given day, meaning they might be having complications affecting their mood or their health, and we must always stop to think before feeling angry emotions and letting them out on each other that it is just okay to say, Hey! I am not feeling well today or I am quite busy at the moment but thanks for saying hello & I will try to speak with you later, rather than getting upset with the other if they cannot be there for you when you expect them to be.

Mutually compatible relationships are more or less like a see-saw, because one person in the partnership could be in a very happy & energetic mood while the other might be feeling listless and low, and that is the time when the person with the upper hand (so to speak) helps to cheer them up and bring them out of their sad mindset. More often than not, you will find that very same person who was down the day before will be up & chipper (or back to life) the following day, after which you might just be the one who is not in the frame of mind to deal with very much, and that is the time when the other half steps in to help to bring you out of the bad frame of mind that has set in.

It is just like a magnet or a battery, in essence, a truly compatible & mutually satisfying realtionship, for there is always a PLUS and a NEGATIVE. This is just a simple basic rule of life that works in all areas of it, not only in human relationships. The sooner people realize this & begin to practise being HUMAN this world will become a much better place, for this is THE EPITOMY OF MATURITY, spelled out in so many words.

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NOTE: I am very proud to boast about several friendships I have formed with people I have met for the first time both online & in person In Only Seven Days, and in exactly like the same fashion as the Queen song portrays.